After waiting a while, my wallet did no longer allow to promote my transaction and forced me to reattach.
That forced me into reattaching the transaction, in the process I "doomed" three other non-zero transactions attached to mine. I waited over an hour with reattaching...
Why does my wallet not allow me to promote? Is there any reason - as long as a transaction can still confirm - to not promote them, even if they are already a few hours/days old? After all this doesn't "doom" transactions and requires far less POW.